On Tuesday, we went into San Jose.
We went as students, and not tourists. We didn't sit in on a lecture at an
embassy or a think tank, or admire San Jose's unique culture from afar.
Instead, we were able to meet with HIV/AIDS patients at a shelter. We were lead
through the homey building into an area of tables and chairs, where several of
the patients shared their stories with us. They told us their stories; many of
them have known of their HIV positive status for over twenty years, have lost
lovers along the way, and have endured serious discrimination from their
families as well as the Costa Rican community. The people at this shelter,
despite their hardships, opened up to us right away. They told us how they had
been outcasted by their families, fired from their jobs when their employers
found out their HIV status, and often times discriminated against for being
homosexual. They shared with us their day to day struggles, facing the deaths
of their friends and living with the disease themselves. It was more of a
discussion than a lecture; we learned about their lifestyle and they learned
about ours.
It was then that I realized, visits
like this one are what studying abroad is all about. Yes, it's about seeing the
countryside and getting to know the wildlife. Yes, it's about learning from the
country's best teachers, and of course it's about getting to immerse ones self
in a culture different from there own. That is what we did at the shelter. The
majority of us had had very little exposure to the struggle of HIV/AIDS
patients prior to this visit, and by the end of the discussion we had gotten to
know a slice of culture that largely goes unseen in Costa Rica. At multiple
times during the lecture I felt myself getting goosebumps, and being truly
inspired by what these people had to say. They were all adamant about pursuing
their goals, even in the face of animosity. As people who would some day also
like to change the world, the Global Scholars had a lot to learn from the
people living at the shelter; twenty years of hardships and they hadn't lost
sight of their own personal power to change things, nor had they given up the
fight. They were truly inspirational and helped put things back into
perspective. For the people living at the shelter, giving up without a fight
isn't an option- and it shouldn't be for any of us either. We can change
things, and that's what we're aiming to do as students.
-Kelly Mertz